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Pleasing A Girl

Wed Aug 20, 2008, 2:38 AM
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...is not exactly easy for a guy now, is it? I can  say that I am hard to please. Heck, I can’t even please myself for crying out loud.  Here are some point that might help you guys who’s having a problem with your girl.

Sweet things

You know those little sweet things that you do when you and her got together for the first months? Don’t ever lose that, even if how the girl act so cold at times. There will be times that if your girl is alone, she will remember those things and that will keep her smiling for that moment or the rest of the day.


Walking in pairs; There are couples who goes out and having dates with matching clothes. I know some guys likes doing that and girls appreciate it. (Although, I don’t do that and I’m glad not to)



What? Where? Huh?

Most guys, and I am speaking in general, doesn’t know what to suggest or do when going out on a date. Girls doesn’t really like telling off a guy on what to do, unless she really wants to be “on top” - meaning being in control all the time. Even how many times you tell a girl that you just want them to tell you what’s on their mind; what they want to eat; where they want to go; it doesn’t happen all the time. Why? Girls, well, they want to see a little initiative from you guys.


Going out on a limb

There will be times when guys try to do an initiative like: deciding what to eat; where to go; or what to do and all of a sudden your girl wouldn’t like those things you suggested. The key word there is: patience. Showing that you’re pissed off at her just because she can’t decide will only make the situation worse. It’s like setting a bonfire but no effort comes unrewarded.


If the girl is already annoyed and starting to do the silent treatment, don’t just stand there or walk by her without saying anything. This situation varies, you can try to make her laugh and see how it goes or try to say that you’re sorry in a calm manner and just decide what you guys usually do that makes her laugh. Usually, they will soften up and smile again. You’ll thank me if this worked.


Kissing & Making up

Whenever a girl gets mad at you, “doing” her after the date is the last resort but not always the perfect solution. Try letting her sulk on her own and surprise her by doing something sweet or nice the next day.



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:iconreiji-kun:
hmm... what triggered you to write this entry? ;p

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because sometimes, guys need to be told.

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Hmmm. Handy information. Would have been nice to know this a couple of years ago, but will definitely be added to my vault of knowledge. AND LOCKED AWAY FOR ALL ETERNITY! haha. :D

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hope it helps you, lp. if you ever encounter such moment

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Well meh right back at you. WITH SPIDERS.

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lol... having a relationship isn't so bad. ^^;

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*calls over shoulder* 'Hey, baby? I got something you need to see right quick, hehe' ^^

Neh, he's not here but some very good pointers to any guy out there.

1 to add to your notes: Guys of the world, we know you're "listening" but could you try to maybe "hear" the words we are saying? Understandably, there are things that distract you but sometimes we are trying to tell you something important and possibly vital to your own well being =^v-v^= Thanks

Hope you don't mind my little input

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